Thursday, June 19, 2014

Daddy Day 2014

 Last Sunday we celebrated six years of Jeff being the best daddy to our two kids. The kids made him a cute card and the outside looked like a tie that read, "Happy Father's Day."




We also bought him a new Nixon watch that he really likes. 









After church on Sunday we took the kids to see How to Train Your Dragon 2  in 3D. We all loved it. We laughed and I cried and it was so fun as it was the first time the kids or I had ever watched a movie in 3D. 


As we were leaving the theater after the movie, we saw a giant balloon Toothless which Ella insisted she get her photo with. 



 Later that evening we went to my folks' house for dinner and we brought Ella's old walker over for Vivi to try. At first she was a little hesitant to walk in it, but she slowly got the hang of it and started walking all over the house. It was pretty cute. 


At one point Ella was pretending to sprinkle Vivi with magic fairy dust to help her walk. 


The dads got to relax and enjoy the NBA Finals while the mommas chatted and watched the kids. 




 It was a great day!

Saturday, June 14, 2014

Make the Ordinary Come Alive


Do not ask your children
to strive for extraordinary lives.
Such striving may seem admirable,
but it is a way of foolishness.
Help them instead to find the wonder
and the marvel of an ordinary life.
Show them the joy of tasting
tomatoes, apples, and pears.
Show them how to cry 
when pets and people die.
Show them the infinite pleasure
in the touch of a hand.
And make the ordinary come alive for them.
The extraordinary will take care of itself. 
~William Martin

I love this poem.

We live a simple life, seeking the joy in each day, in the small, but beautiful moments. I only hope that my our children spend their lives looking for the extraordinary in the ordinary, as there is love and wonderment all around us, after all.

Friday, June 13, 2014

Countdown to Summer!

Summer is less than a week away and the Gustafson Family is thrilled!

After months of being cooped up inside during cold and flu season, getting outdoors and enjoying summer couldn't come sooner. Last Monday my mom and I took the kids to the park and we went for a long walk. It was nice to be outside and Ella loved sliding down this amazingly fast twisty slide over and over while big brother cheered her on. 





Ella also loved the field of daisies we spotted on our walk and insisted on a photo with them. 


Our little sugar plum is three and a half and nearing her fourth birthday with each passing day. She's got sass and spunk; but she also has a gentle, compassionate side as well. She keeps us laughing and impresses us with her knowledge, vocabulary, and zest for fun. She's a little lady with huge feet in the photo below...I swear she will be wearing MY shoes any day now! 



Last Sunday we had a family dinner at my folks' house and Ella enjoyed pushing her cousin, Vivi, all around the backyard.



Yesterday the kids and I went to Shriners Children's Hospital to get Nicholas' AFOs (feet braces) stretched as they were fitting too tight for comfort. This was the amazing view of the Willamette River and the city of Portland from our room. 


Nicholas and Ella were thrilled to get matching tee shirts (Ella's is identical but red instead of navy) from one of our favorite people (Holly Jones) of one of our favorite Universities (Gonzaga) where Holly now works and attends classes. 


Thank you Holly for spoiling the kids!! Go Zags!

Tiny Super Hero


Today Nicholas is the proud recipient of a TinySuperhero cape from some wonderfully generous and thoughtful friends, Traci Ryan and her family. The Ryan children were in my RCIC class a few years ago at Holy Redeemer and I loved getting to know this amazing family. Nicholas absolutely LOVES his gift and has been happily wearing it all day. 

Anyone can purchase a personalized cape for a super hero (a child or adult fighting a disease/illness) or a cape for a supporter of the person you love at this website: http://tinysuperheroes.com

Thank you Ryan family! We sincerely appreciate your SUPER gift for Nicholas!!

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Grimm Play

Last Friday Ella and I went to Journey Theater's production of Grimm. We went to support my co-worker's daughter, Mary, who was one of the eight dwarfs in this adapted Grimm fairytale play. 

I have to say that this production was spectacular! The acting and singing was absolutely amazing and both and Ella and I were mesmerized the entire time. There was some major talent in the youth who performed this show, namely the boy who played Rumpelstiltskin, the boy who played the Big, Bad Wolf and the girl who played Little Red Riding Hood. They were all fabulous, but those three were cast really well. Their singing and acting were spot on. 

At intermission, Ella felt the need to get her wiggles out and used the space next to our seats to do so...








She caught the attention of a gentleman who was congratulating a raffle winner so he asked her to go on stage with two other little girls her age who were dressed as princesses. 


Ella was thrilled to be up on stage as she kept asking me during the show, "When is it my turn to dance on stage?" She got her ten minutes in the spotlight and then she was able to settle down, relax, and enjoy act two. 


It was such a fun mother-daughter event with my little girl!


Thursday, June 5, 2014

I Love My Job


Really and truly, I totally love my job. I am the Pastoral Assistant for Sacraments at Holy Redeemer Catholic Church and it's a job I would have never predicted I would be doing ten years ago. I have my master's degree in education and taught in a Catholic elementary classroom for five years prior to conceiving Nicholas. I was pregnant with him my fifth and final year of teaching and I knew that I desperately wanted more time at home with him, raising him, watching him meet milestones, and being a constant in his young life. Once he was diagnosed with SMA, I realized how truly blessed I was, for if I had been teaching full-time, I would have had to quit mid school year to meet all his medical needs. I applied for the part-time position that I have now nearly six years ago and I have never looked back. This job is more than a job. It's a gift and a blessing and has been the absolute best thing for my family, my spiritual life, and my new career path. I feel abundantly blessed to be able to work in an environment that values family and allows me to be a mommy, first and foremost, because that is where my heart is. I thank God for leading me down this path of discipleship and looking out for our family in such a tangible, profound way. 

Our Small Home


This is my mantra as I trip over the kids' toys, Nicholas' medical equipment, Jeff's gigantic work boots, and the daily clutter in our small home. But I wouldn't have it any other way for our home is full of giggles, joy, and harmony. Most of all it's full of love and that's what makes our haven; our respite from the busy-ness of the world. Our little slice of heaven, just for us. And it doesn't hurt that our yard is pretty substantial in size so on these warm spring into summer days, we take full advantage of the outdoor space for our daily living. 

"There is no place like home." ~Dorothy Gale (The Wizard of Oz)

Vivien's First Birthday

Last Sunday afternoon Ella & I attended my niece's first birthday party. (Jeff stayed home with Nicholas who wasn't feeling fantastic). Vivien turned one yesterday, June 4th. Isn't she just darling?!


Ella loved the space where her party was, which included an awesome play structure and swings. Papa was happy to give her some big pushes.




 There was also tons of green space to run and play with the other children.


Ella was thrilled when Auntie Tina asked her to help Vivi open her gifts!



Mmmm, cake!






Happy first birthday, sweet girl! We all love you so very much! xxoo

Sunny June Days

We've been blessed with sunny weather and perfect temperatures these past couple of weeks. My pink peonies are finally blooming and I trimmed off several this week, enough to fill two vases. They are so lovely and make the house smell wonderful, they are definitely my favorite flower. 


We also have been thrilled to see our mini garden thriving. We potted three tomato plants and four pepper plants and will hopefully harvest in a few months and make some delicious salsa. 


Last weekend Jeff planted some arborvitaes along the fence line in our backyard and had to keep pulling out huge rocks from the soil. Most were large but not too big that he couldn't move them himself. This one below, however, is gigantic, probably over 300 lbs and Jeff used his truck wench to pull it out. When we rinsed it off with the garden hose we discovered an engraving on one side of the stone which reads: June. 3d. 1902.  We reasoned that it was probably a homestead marker for some settlers back at the start of the century. It such an amazing find and such a unique part of history. We plan to add it to our landscaping in the backyard near where it was discovered. 


Nicholas is over his two-week cold virus and is back to his normal, joyful self. A few days after his sixth birthday, his awesome high-low base and new seating system was delivered, but he wasn't feeling up to sitting in it. Finally, on Monday this week he felt up to relaxing it in for a couple of hours. 


It's such a nice chair for him. We were running out of seats on our small-ish sofa since Nicholas is so darn tall now, so it's wonderful for him to have his own place to sit that is comfortable and all his own. I also appreciate the convenience of raising and lowering the chair with ease. Nicholas likes to go low to the ground to play with Ella, watch his new cars spin around the race track, listen to books read aloud by mommy, and use his eye gaze system. When the chair is raised up he can join us for dinner, help me cook in the kitchen, watch movies, and talk with mommy and daddy and other adults that visit. 


Today Nicholas had his well-child check-up at the pediatrician's office and he weighed in at a whopping 41lbs! No wonder he feels so heavy to lift these days. His high-low chair will also be great for moving him around the house since it's on wheels. 

He also lost his third tooth this morning. I cannot believe that the tooth fairy is visiting our house for the THIRD time! I am always amazed at how quickly these two kids of ours grow and change and cherish so many of these milestones and magical moments. 


Ella loves to ride her bike all the time and constantly asks Jeff to take off the training wheels so she "can go really, really fast!" Jeff and I always chuckle when she asks and explain to her that she still needs some practice with them on the bike before her daddy will take them off.